Other circle members seem to be developing quicker than me. Why?

Some people have a natural ability in there development, maybe they are very sensitive, or naturally mediumistic. It is often said if one of your relatives was a medium/psychic, then it can run in the family. An aunt of mine used to read tea leaves etc, and both my Grandmothers had mediumistic abilities, one saw spirit, and the other one just knew things, though looking back they probably knew more than they let onto.

Many good mediums have had such a hard life, materially, physically and/or emotionally. This has been a lesson to teach them compassion and empathy as well as letting them learn about themselves whilst they have endured hardship.

Isn’t gold purified through fire when all of the dross is drained off during the process?

Spiritual jealousy is nasty, it is negative and destructive and can be erosive to the person who is jealous. How does anyone who calls themselves a spiritualist let alone a medium have the right to run a fellow spirit down if they have progressed a little further along the way than them. We should be glad somebody has achieved this, and not be jealous because our ego has been rocked.

Some people (spirits) progress faster than others. There is a reason and purpose to everything in the divine plan, who are we to be jealous and critical. If we then become negative because of this, we inflict karmic debt upon ourselves.

Please understand that I am not having a go at you, but we must walk and live in the light. Be patient with your self and be happy your colleague has achieved this growth. However I must say your dedication and commitment are of a paramount importance, you must attend circle regularly as well as workshops when you can. Spirit makes a commitment to you by being at circle, so like wise, your attendance does matter.